My time at Bethany Christian Services was brief, but impactful. I worked there for just over a year and by and large it was an incredible experience. I loved Bethany’s missional approach to adoption. In fact, my primary role was to meet with potential adoptive parents and explain to them how Bethany was different from so many other adoption agencies. Bethany emphasized building relationships between adoptive parents and birth parents. Yes, adoption is a way to build your family, but it’s also a way to love women (and men) who have been marginalized. I was passionate about this. About loving the least of these; children and parents alike. Building your family through adoption is an opportunity to show birth parents the love of Jesus. It was a privilege to walk with adoptive parents and humbling to see the love and sacrifice of birth parents. It was beautiful to watch the relationships among the two sets of parents. It was messy. It was hard. It was good. It was worthwhile.
My reasons for leaving were mostly personal, however, I’d be lying if I said I wasn’t concerned about the cultural winds that were blowing. I could see the writing on the wall. A day was coming when Bethany would be forced to choose between fidelity to God’s word and serving the least of these through adoption and foster care.
Sadly, last week Bethany Christian Services bowed down to the idol of inclusivity; sacrificing fidelity to God’s word on its altar. Of course, their intentions are good, truly, I believe they mean well; but we know what they say about the road to hell.
If we buy into the narrative that in order to care for the least of these we must capitulate to the whims of the government and the culture at large we will surely end up losing the Christ whose name we say we minister in. If we buy into that narrative we show a lack of trust in the God who is bigger than our current circumstances; having the appearance of godliness but denying its power (2 Timothy 3:5) And if we buy into that narrative we may very well miss out on some unique opportunities to serve and glorify God. It is God, not the government or culture, who has prepared good works for us to do (Ephesians 2:10).
In all likelihood it is going to become harder and harder to live as Christ calls us to in this world. We will stick out like sore thumbs, but God tells us that we will also shine like stars in the midst of a crooked and twisted generation as we hold fast to the word of life (Philippians 2:14-16).
As Christians get pushed further towards the edges of society we glorify God by loving the very ones that push us there as we endure suffering for the sake of our faithful Savior. Now is not the time to panic or succumb, now is the time to stand firm and see the salvation of the Lord (Exodus 14:13). Let’s be winsome, loving, courageous, ambassadors for Christ; remembering that God has not given us a spirit of fear but of power and love and self control (2 Timothy 1:7).